Bachelorette's DeAnna and Jesse breakup

DeAnna & Jesse: 'Bachelorette' Romance Over!

The love story is over for "Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak -- and the heartbroken pro-snowboarder spills to "Extra" about the split.

Jesse reveals how Pappas ended things, saying, "We took time apart... She came back to Colorado and told me, 'I love you, but I'm not in love with you.' ...I picked her up from the airport and she told me while I was getting her bags."

Csincsak also admits that he was shocked and surprised that DeAnna released a statement about their broken engagement. "She told some of our business associates today first... I didn't know this had been released today," confesses Jesse. "We had agreed after she broke up with me... that we would put together a statement and have it released."

Despite Pappas calling it quits, Jesse admits that he's still in love with the brunette beauty. "I love that woman. She is an amazing person. I am willing to work through it. I love her... I love the way she made me feel. She made me feel like no other." When asked if he'll fight for her and the relationship, he said, "I don't want to fight for a lost cause. I just want her to be happy whether it's with or without me."

DeAnna told her fiancé that she wanted to move to Los Angeles -- and was not willing to go to counseling with him. Jesse explains, "DeAnna said, 'I'm not willing to try anymore.' She had a different idea. I can't argue with her feelings... She's the only one who knows how she feels." The snowboarder now wonders if their relationship was based on publicity, telling "Extra," "the only time she was touchy feely with me was around the cameras."

When asked if he would like to send a message to DeAnna via "Extra," Jesse tearfully said, "I guess I would say I'm sorry for whatever I did to make you not want to be with me."

Jesse and DeAnna are over -- and Csincsak admits that he's jealous of Jason Mesnick, who is looking for love as the next "Bachelor." "I really envy Jason's position right now... It's an amazing show... You could go and fall in love. I would love the opportunity to fall in love again."

wow what a bitch!

CHRIS Harrison, the host of ABC's "The Bachelor," ripped "Bachelorette" DeAnna Pappas for the way she dumped her fiancé Jesse Csincsak.

Harrison claims Pappas told reporters about the breakup to publicly humiliate Csincsak.

"He was stunned," Harrison said in a radio interview Monday. "I've talked to Jesse several times . . . and he did not see it coming."

It is extremely rare for the above-it-all host of a reality show to unload on a former contestant.

A teary-eyed Csincsak broke the news in a one-minute video that was first posted on the couple's Web site Monday and on YouTube yesterday.

"They agreed that this was not going to get to the public until [today]," Harrison said. "They were going to release a joint statement and try to keep this above board, and she went out on her own and leaked it, and so he's just feeling a little beat up."

Harrison says Pappas is driven by the possibility that she will become a Hollywood star.

He says she has been getting bad advice from "paparazzi guys, and other people that she's been running into that have filled her head with, you know, these big dreams that she's going to come to Hollywood and make it big and do all this stuff. I think her head's getting a little bigger than it should, and I think that's led to this as well."

:( Bless his heart. She's awful.

Graham was my favorite. <3

Whew! I thought you were going to say she's fierce...lol

I never thought he was her type so I never knew why she chose him but if I recall I did hear rumors that she wanted Graham but Graham didn't want her, I thought they were rumors at the time but maybe not after all .... I absolutely loved Graham and wish he would had been chosen as the next Bachelor just so I could see more of him :lovestruck:

Graham is dating Chrishell Stause (Amanda Dillon, All My Children).