TV star, Korean War vet to speak at dinner Published: Friday, November 04, 2011
By Laura Hipshire
Press & Guide Newspapers
Dearborn native and “Big Brother 10” winner Dan
Gheesling has his tie adjusted by fellow contestant and friend, Jerry
MacDonald, at Gheesling’s recent wedding to Chelsea Niemiec.
(Photo courtesy Mark Slater)
DEARBORN HEIGHTS — In 2008, Jerry MacDonald was a popular and
sometimes controversial contestant on the CBS reality TV show, “Big
Brother.” MacDonald was a formidable competitor and made it to the final
three along with eventual winner and Dearborn native Dan Gheesling. He
is famous for once calling Gheesling a “Judas.”
Fast forward
three years later…MacDonald and Gheesling are now friends, with
MacDonald even attending Gheesling’s recent marriage to Chelsea Niemiec
in July.
“When you’re playing for $500,000, you’re not always nice. He (Gheesling) played it the best,” MacDonald said.
Mark
and Carol Slater, friends of Gheesling and his family, hosted MacDonald
while he was in town for the wedding. The Slaters, chairmen of the
annual Dearborn Heights Kiwanis Veterans Day Appreciation Dinner, were
touched by MacDonald’s dedication to the Korean War Era, prompting them
to ask him to be their featured speaker at the event at 6:30 p.m.
Thursday at the Stitt VFW Post, 23850 Military Road in Dearborn Heights.
“We
really enjoyed our weekend with Jerry, and learned what a great
American he is. He is a proud retired Marine,” said Mark Slater.
MacDonald, 78, admittedly had a rough childhood.
“When I was 16, I was homeless, and deserted by both parents,” he said.
When he was 17, he joined the U.S. Marine Corps, and served from 1950 to 1954.
“I joined to stay out of trouble…it gave me a whole new outlook on life,” he said.
MacDonald joined the Marine Corps three months before the Korean War started, and calls himself an “abled Veteran.”
“I
was fortunate enough to be sent to dispersing (payroll) school. I took
care of payroll…I was one of the lucky ones,” he said, referring to the
fact that he never had to engage in actual combat.
“The Korean
War is the forgotten war. It was the first war where troops were
integrated and helicopters were used. Ten thousand people died before
the war even started. The U.S. lost 33,686 in battle, and there were
100,000 wounded,” he said.
“The Korean War awarded 136 medals of honor…there were only two in the Afghan war,” he said.
MacDonald, now living in Pennsylvania, is looking forward to speaking at the Veteran’s Day Appreciation Dinner.
“I
think of the Korean War every day of my life. I like to honor Veterans.
I always wear my Marines hat and leather jacket,” he said.
Gheesling
describes MacDonald as “one tough individual. He’s very opinionated and
strong willed. Even though he has endured through a lot of tough things
in his life, it has not affected how compassionate he is as a man. He
is one of a kind.”
MacDonald is currently a full time caregiver
for his wife of nearly 58 years, Joanne, who suffers from Parkinson’s
Disease and Alzheimer’s.
MacDonald himself suffered a bout of cancer following his exit from the Big Brother house.
“I
ended up having cancer on my vocal cords, that’s why I was hoarse all
the time,” he said. After 33 sessions of radiation, he has been
cancer-free for three years.
MacDonald would consider someday appearing on a Big Brother All Star show, or even Survivor.
“I
still work out…I am a strong competitor. I have tree trunks for arms. I
think America would love to see an 80 year old on Survivor,” he said.
Gheesling said if MacDonald ever did Survivor he would be very fun to watch.
“I think he would do well in any survival type situation, he has done that his whole life,” Gheesling said.
MacDonald said he has no regrets about anything he did on Big Brother.
“I told the truth to everybody on that show. I’ve received mostly praise and support from any fans,” he said.
Gheesling,
still teaching and coaching football at Orchard Lake St. Mary’s,
recently started a personal development blog called “I Would Coach.”
(iwouldcoach.com).
“It is something I have always wanted to do, and gives me the opportunity to help others in the process,” he said.
Gheesling’s football team at St. Mary’s is still alive in the playoffs, so he may not be able to attend the Nov. 10 event.
“If I can’t make it, I will have someone Flip Cam Jerry’s speech so I can see how well he does,” he said.
Dearborn
Heights Mayor Dan Paletko and City Council Members will also be at the
event with MacDonald, joining citizens of the Dearborn Heights community
and members of the Dearborn Heights Kiwanis Club to salute local
Veterans.